Right now, I need to be overly conscious of the boundaries I set with respect to people. My therapist says I should be avoiding anything that has any elements of “sexual energy” with others. This includes the ex-wife. While I understand this, the concept of “sexual energy” sounds absolutely delectable. In the long run, however, I want to be better at relationships, better at monogamy (or at least being honest that I’m not good at it) and most importantly to deal with life as it comes.