One of the ways I feel connected to the world, in a good, deeper way, is to be of service when possible. Oddly, my choice to be helpful can lead to feelings of resentment. I need to keep humble and realize that it was MY CHOICE TO HELP OUT!
Today I’m assisting with a practice job interview program at my undergraduate school. It helps the students prepare for actual job interviews, but also helps me sharpen my interviewing skills.
Tomorrow, I’m bringing morning refreshments for a “marathon” meeting for a recovery group I work with. I’m a little more nervous about this as it’s my first time helping in this manner. I hope my coffee to bagel to doughnut to water to soda to banana ratios are just perfect! 😛
The New Normal 
Are you a sex addict or just “addicted” to one person. If just one person then look at. Dr. Cookery info on Limerence. The problem with people suffering from Limerence is that thay can become obsesses/stalkerish and get in trouble with the law. It sounds like you and your wife have moved on to shortly being exes. Hope that goes smoothly.
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I ID myself as a sex addict with dependency being an advancement of the addiction. It’s a newfound fix that s stronger than the porn, phone, chat, etc. were.
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